Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Empty and Full

This talk was given by our team member, Lilian V.:

It is in the book of Ruth that we find Naomi.  This first chapter begins with a mystical , spiritual  tone.           Ruth 1:1-2

Long ago, in the days before Israel had a king, there was a famine in the land. So a man named Elimelech,   who belonged to the clan of Ephrath and who lived in Bethlehem in Judah went with his wife Naomi and their two sons Marlon and Chillion to live for a while in the country of Moab.

This reads like a beautiful bedtime story "long ago, in the days before Israel had a King".   The story of Naomi is a story of  love, loyalty, and redemption. It is a story of a mother-in-law Naomi and a daughter-in-law Ruth. The relationship between both of them. Naomi teaching by example about God and Ruth learning about the living God.  The book of Ruth underscores the theme of the Bible:  God desires all to believe in Him, even non-Israelites.

Elimelech was from the tribe of Judah.  Naomi was a pleasant and capable Jewish girl.  With their two sons they went to the land of Moab. They left behind their home of Bethlehem. The people in Bethlehem had turned away from their God. Everything was in chaos. The Mosaic Covenant( the 10 Commandments) were not followed. The people started the practice of worshipping pagan gods.  It was a time of lawless and a great famine. It was a dark time in Israel's history. Moab is located east of the Dead Sea. The Moabites were descends from Lot. We all remember Lot's forbidden relationship with his older daughter. Naomi and her husband were not planning to stay too long  in Moab. They were going into a pagan land far away from family and friends and leaving everything behind. I can only imagine how bad things were in Bethlehem. Deuteronomy 28:22-24 gives  a description of the famine.

The Lord will strike you with infectious diseases, with swelling and fever; he will send drought and scorching winds to destroy your crops.  These disasters will be with you until you die. No rain will fall and your ground will become as hard as iron. Instead of rain, the Lord will send down dust storms and sandstorms until you are destroyed.  (pause)

God is a good God but as we see many times, God's people disobeyed him.  Now,   in Moab, Naomi and her husband began to make a life  for themselves. Their two sons married Moabites women, Orpah and Ruth.   We can only  wonder how Naomi felt when her sons married pagan women? Did she try to tell them not to do it? did she question God?  Was she charitable toward her two daughters-in-law?  as we get to know Naomi,   we find out that she was a kind and loving mother-in-law. She had an unusual love and loyalty for her daughters-in-law.

Soon afterwards, Elimelech dies,  Naomi's sorrow was great. Some years later Naomi two sons die. She lost her sons but she also felt the pain of sorrow for Orpah and Ruth. Her two daughters-in-law were the only family she had in this land of Moab. Together they cried and comforted each other. We can almost feel the great pain all three wives were feeling. We as women have had times of sorrow. When times like this come into my life  I Pray, Psalm 22

Leave your troubles with the Lord, and he will defend you: He never lets honest people be defeated;

God wants us to enjoy the life He has blessed us with. God also steers us in the direction He wants us to move,   through His Blessings. By shutting one door he will open another door of opportunity. Naomi made ready to go back to Bethlehem since she heard that the famine there had diminished.  Orpah and Ruth  decided to take a course of action and go with Naomi back to Bethlehem.  The love Naomi had for her daughters-in-law was a very caring one. Naomi explained to them that it wasn't right  for young women to forsake their families and friends  for an uncertain  future in Bethlehem.  She expresses the hope that the Lord's loyal love would extend to her daughters-in-laws, who were outside the land of Israel and were not Jewish.  Ruth 1:8

They started out together to go back to Judah, but on the way she said to them, "Go back home and stay with your mothers.  Orpah followed Naomi's advice cried  and kissed her  mother-in-law said good-bye and went back home.  Ruth insisted on staying with her mother-in-law. The loyalty and support she offered Naomi proved to be the turning point in her own life. 

The book of Ruth is a rich source of insights into healthy personal relationships.  It reminds us that even during the dark days of the era of Judges, godly men and women could and did live blessed and happy lives.

Ruth's relationship with God began the way most relationships with Our Lord do.  Ruth began to know and value someone who knew God well. For Ruth, that person was Naomi. This is a lesson for us all. We must become an example of God's love with everyone we meet. It is those "little ways" that others see God in us. Maybe a hello to someone, a smile to another,even a hug to someone that might need one. We go through life  not knowing who we might touch. Naomi lived her God every day . She spoke easily about God because He was real to her. We see this in the blessing she gave her two daughters-in-law after Naomi had decided to return to Judah.   Ruth 1:9

May the Lord be as good to you as you have been to me and to those who have died. And may the Lord make it possible for each of you to marry again and have a home.                Naomi clearly loved her daughters-in-law and loved God.  In loving she became the bridge over which Ruth passed into faith. We all have a bridge that we cross over and it is then we began to love God with all our heart, and all our soul.  With me it has been a very long bridge . I didn't have any religion growing up. I don't have any memory of ever going to church with my parents. I didn't have a big celebration when I made my first communion . It wasn't until I was 14 that I drove myself to church and then I started attended mass. My bridge was my grandmother. She was from Mexico and only spoke Spanish and my prayers were in Spanish. She talked about God , told me stories about the bible. She spoke with love and humility. That was when I started crossing the bridge. I am sure that each one of us have our own story to tell. It would be a good subject to meditate on and find your bridge and then praise Our heavily  Father  for showing us the way.

Ruth refused to return home. She truly loved her mother-in-law and would not desert her. She realized that this decision called for a faith commitment to Naomi's God. When Naomi continued to urge Ruth to return home, Ruth  expressed her commitment to Naomi.  Ruth's answer is found in   Ruth 1:16-17          "Don't ask me to leave you! Let me go with you.  Wherever you go, I will go: wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God.  Wherever you die, I will die, and that is where I will be buried. May the Lord's worst punishment come upon me if I let anything but death separate me form you!"

Ruth expressed commitment was significant.  The people of Israel had a covenant relationship with God. Ruth, aware of this relationship, pledged that "your people shall be my people'

She was also committing herself to Israel's God. Ruth had chosen "the Lord God of Israel, "  Ruth was given a blessing. Ruth 2:12

May the Lord reward you for what you have done. May you have a full reward from the Lord God of Israel, to whom you have come for Protection!"

When Naomi saw that Ruth was determined to go with her, she said nothing more. So Naomi and Ruth                       

continued on to Bethlehem.  Naomi had been gone for a long time and everyone was excited to see her. She was still suffering from her lost that she told the people "Don't call me Naomi," but call me "Mara" which meant "Bitter". The concepts of fullness and emptiness appear here. Naomi left with a husband and two sons.  But now she returned to Bethlehem empty. She was so immerse in her sorrow that she might have felt that her tragedies were punishment for her sins.  Maybe if she had trusted God more she would not have felt so hopeless. Some of us have been in a situation where we lose trust in  God and feel hopeless.

My great hopeless came to me when I lost my father. I loved him so much that to this day I call him  "Daddy". I remember wondering to myself "  will I ever  laugh again".  Like Naomi, I didn't know the blessings I would  receive  afterwards.  It was a time of redemption for me. It was a time of saving my soul through forgiveness toward my mother and having a relationship with her before she died.  With Daddy's death I saw and understood my Mother's sorrow.  The book of Luke gave me great comfort.  Luke 6:21

Happy are you who are hungry now, you will be filled!

Happy are you who weep now: you will laugh. 

Ruth and Naomi arrived at the beginning of barley harvest. Barley was the first crop to ripen, and this period would be the beginning of the harvest season. The law of Moses allowed the poor to gather the grain left  by the people doing the main harvest in the farmers' fields. Even though Ruth did not intentionally go to the field of Boaz, the Lord directed her steps. Boaz was related to Naomi's husband and as a relative,  He  could stand up for the rights of these two women.  He was described as a man of great wealth, a person of noble character and of high standing in the community. Ruth was not presumptuous but asked for a favor that she might  enter the field. Gleaning was hard work, but for the poor each kernel of grain was precious.  And Ruth continued from morning until late in the day gathering food for Naomi and herself. Boaz demonstrated extraordinary concern for Ruth.

In every way Ruth showed herself to be loyal, hard-working, sensible, and responsive to Naomi's advice.  Clearly Ruth had a deep respect for Naomi, as well as a real love for her mother-in-law. Well aware of  her good qualities, Boaz related toward her with great pleasure and approval.  He invited her to eat with his harvesters, told her to harvest with his own servants, and instructed the young men not to molest her.  Ruth returned home to Naomi and told her what good fortune it was to have found  a field belonging to a man named Boaz. Naomi exclaimed. "The Lord bless Boaz!"  Naomi   explain to Ruth that Boaz was a close relative of theirs.  Ruth 2:22-23

Naomi said to Ruth, "Yes, daughter, it will be better for you to work with the women in Boaz field.  You might be molested if you went to someone else' field. So Ruth worked with them and gathered grain until all the barley and wheat had been harvested.  And she continued to live with her mother-in-law.

Naomi is a wonderful example of how to evangelize.  She  didn't try to talk Ruth into faith.  Instead it was through love and living a life that Ruth recognized as Godly.  Naomi shows us how to be a gracious in our relationships toward others.  She loved Ruth enough to put Ruth's welfare above her own.  Many parents hesitate to offer advice to adult children.  We all know that we cannot force our will on them, but we can share our thoughts and our wisdom with those willing to listen.  When advice is given lovingly and with respect, it will often be welcomed.

Naomi is a glorious reminder of how God can make one of the least likely to be remembered into someone who will never be forgotten.       When we feel insignificant we can remember how God used a starving widow to win a woman to faith who became an ancestress of Jesus Christ.

Next week we are going to learn more about Ruth,  and Naomi becoming a wonderful grandmother. It continues  being a love story of relationships and God's goodness. When I began reading about Naomi I wondered :     how God was going to make something good and beautiful with a Moab woman, a pagan woman.  After studying Naomi I knew the answer .     From Moab comes Ruth, and from Ruth comes her son Obed, from Obed comes Jesse, from Jesse comes David    Ruth 4:18-22 and though David comes Jesus Christ       Matt.1,5,6

In Closing I would like to read from Deuteronomy 7:9

Remember that the Lord your   God is the only God   and that he is faithful.  He will keep his covenant and show his constant love to a thousand generations   for those who love him and obey his commands.

 The message I would like to leave you with is --------sometimes we have trouble recognizing God's goodness and His faithfulness but He is still with us no matter the circumstance.  

 

 

  

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